It requires some upper-body strength, plus something sturdy to prop one knee up with.Īnally, it’s a bit more doable, though my dedicated butt dildo is a bit too long. Overall, I don’t find this the most comfortable position vaginally. The bathtub edge is good for bracing your hands against, though. (Or, I’m not ashamed to admit I purloined my kid’s stepping stool for this purpose.) I can’t ride the dildo comfortably when my knees are uneven, so I’ve pulled out every pillow in the bedroom for this approach. Also, you’ll likely need a stack of pillows/towels if you don’t want one knee to be seriously higher than the other. Otherwise your cervix will get poked/your rectum will get more than it’s ready for. This is a tricky one: you have to get the right height dildo to use while straddling the tub. See the fuchsia Real Nude Ergo standing upright on that ledge?: If you’re lucky, your shower might have some sort of cutout, like this. (My shower dildo choices follow the same pattern as my overall suction cup dildo recs!) (The angle of penetration matters a lot for me and my genitals.) My best dildo-on-flat-wall experiences have been with upward-curving dildos or long, flexible dildos, so the toy hits the right spots for me. Like I said in the positioning section above, if you try to use a dildo on a flat wall while facing the wall, you’ll have to arch your shoulders back and thrust your pelvis forward if you want any kind of angle. So I’ve given dildo-in-shower usage a 4-out-of-5 rating vaginally, but your shower’s specific configuration makes a big difference. (Yes, you’ll need lots of lube if you’re getting hit by the water, though! A hybrid like the *thick* Hybrid Jelle works well with silicone toys does not damage them, I promise.) I think this is the most obvious idea-or at least it was for me personally, because I find showers to be a turn-on in general. V = vaginal use, A = anal! On the Shower Wall ????(V & A) The stars indicate how workable I’ve found each position, with five stars being the best. Like all sex positions, dildo sex can take experimenting & exploration to find your best fit. Keep reading for details about the trials and tribulations (?) 2 I’ve undergone while sticking dildos all over my house. But…getting the right height is the problem when you have a dildo stuck on a floor/chair/desk, etc.! Horizontal: Mounting a dildo on a horizontal surface gives me a bit more control: I can lean forward (to get a good G-spot curve) or backward without putting awkward pressure on my lower back. Overall, with one big exception, dildo-from-behind is a dildo sex position that I find uncomfortable vaginally, and a bit awkward anally too. Your mileage, of course, may vary depending on your anatomy. Plus, I’m not getting any additional clitoral stimulation when I have a dildo entering me from behind (like I would if I was facing the toy and using it vaginally). And when the dildo is lower on the wall and I’m on my knees, my feet and legs get in the way.
While I’m standing with a dildo entering me from behind, I often feel like I’m going to fall over when I try to get a good rhythm going. I’ve tried it both standing up and on my knees, doggy style. (Unless you have a very loooong dildo or are more acrobatic than I am.)Īnally or vaginally, butt-to-the-wall can be awkward. If you’re using your wall-mounted suction cup dildo anally, of course you’ll be facing away from it. (Unless you have a wall cutout: see #11 in the “Where to Stick It” section, next.) I have to angle my pelvis forward and push back from the wall in order to get the angle I like. The disadvantage of this position, though, is that-unless the dildo is really long and squishy, or has an extreme upward curve-it puts a lot of pressure on the lower back and knees too. As someone who really likes an upward curve for G-spot stimulation, I typically face toward my suction-cupped dildos, and I have their coronal ridges pointing up, toward the ceiling. Vertical: With a suction cup dildo on a flat vertical surface (like a wall), you only have two options for vaginal use: you face the dildo or you turn your ass toward it. The first question is: vertical or horizontal?